Does Having Sex Online Make it Less of a Betrayal?

Hello Fellow Travelers. I’ve gotten some interesting e-mails from you. I know I’m not the most popular girl on the blog, amongst men, at least. But I’m not looking for approval. I’m looking for vindication. So many of you are angry that I’ve gone on my husband’s online account. Yet I’ve clearly had just cause. He’s been unfaithful. Using the Internet to betray our commitment. Does having sex online make it less of a betrayal?